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Aug 23 2013

Jon Acuff August 5Club Notes

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Every month, New York Times best-selling author Jon Acuff, holds a morning seminar on a Friday at 5am. It’s called 5Club. During the 90 minutes, Jon just drops knowledge about various things he’s learning. Since he’s a thought leader, the topics are really interesting. My notes from this morning are below, but first a story that happened near the end of 5Club…

There was a guy there this morning who was driving from Baltimore to Texas and stopped in Nashville for 5Club. When Jon asked us to share one of our audacious dreams, this guy shared that he wants to start a go-kart track where the go-karts do 100+ miles per hour (REAL go-karts, not the ones at putt-putt courses). After he got done sharing he said, “I just wanted to say, my biggest fear is speaking in front of people. I’m terrified of it. And I can’t believe I just said that out loud.” It was one of the most moving moments of my week. Even as I type this there are tears in my eyes. To see courage demonstrated is deeply inspiring. I would have never guessed that about this guy. He spoke with such confidence. He said he drove 700 miles and then almost didn’t speak up. Jon commented, “Isn’t that just like fear to get you four miles away?” The room broke out into applause when he finished. AND RIGHTLY SO!!! It was a magic moment!


  • Jon said more people would probably come to 5Club if it was called the 7 Club and met at 7am, but it just wouldn’t feel the same. 5am is for hustlers.
  • In counseling, they ask, “What was your family origin?” and you gain insights into yourself by your upbringing. In our careers, we can ask, “What were my job origins?” Doing this show us work patterns that may be ingrained in us that are either positive or negative. For instance, a woman Jon talked to was an accountant for 15 years. She had learned that nearly everything in accounting could be done perfectly because numbers are so black and white. But when she shifted careers, she had to recognize this tendency for perfection didn’t work in her new creative career where failure is just part of the game. Jon had us spend 60 seconds thinking about good and bad work patterns that are in us based on our previous work. Some examples he gave from his life…
    • Jon’s normal habit is to be laser-focused on one project at a time and becomes obsessed with it – sometimes to the detriment of other more important tasks. Some of his jobs taught him prioritization.
    • Leaders are often uncomfortable celebrating.
    • Mr. Bose (who started Bose Audio) told the company not to use the word “bass” because all other company’s used it. He preferred “low frequency output” – which doesn’t exactly roll off the tongue. Jon learned it’s ok to keep some ideas that others use – not EVERYTHING needs to be unique.
    • Bose talked about how he wanted people to think of the company like a huge soccer field and people were welcome to move all over the place because that’s where good ideas and interesting things come from. But what often happens is that each manager puts boundaries on the field until lower-level employees feel like they have a postage stamp of freedom. The idea is this: keep the field open all the way down management. It’s a field, not a stamp! (of course, this doesn’t work in all industries, but the point is that our default should be freedom until it requires control)
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    • We work with tons of people who have tons of talent and we never know it because we don’t ask them or give them freedom to show it. It’s like the scene in Karate Kid where Daniel finds out Mr Miyagi has a black belt and asks, “Why didn’t you tell me you knew karate?” And Mr Miyagi says, “You never asked.”
    • One of the attenders had been in radio for a long time and said being in radio taught him it’s not about the mistake, it’s about the recovery. Move on. Jon added that people won’t camp out on your mistakes unless you do.

Jon then had us do an exercise where we imagined what our nine-year old selves would say to the person we are today. We took 60 seconds to think on this. Jon said his wife, Jenny, asked him, “Do you want to be be a great writer or greatly known?” A nine-year old would want to know: did you trade what you do for a platform? A nine-year old doesn’t say, “Someday, I want a platform.” They say, “I want to be a poet.” Some sample responses from the group…

  • Why do you take yourself so seriously?
  • When did you start comparing yourself to others so much? If you imagine a nine-year old critiquing social media, you’d hear them say, “Would you go house-to-house and knock on a stranger’s door and ask to see their wedding photos? Why are you doing it online? Make some real friends!”
  • When you were younger, you created all day long. Why don’t you make things anymore?
  • When you used to dream, it usually involved helping other people – you wanted to be a doctor, a police officer, a firefighter. Who are you helping?

We’re reluctant to look at these questions because it can mean “taking a step back” in our career. Jenny asked Jon: What if more of you means less audience? Our greatest good may be in thinking of the good our nine-year old selves wanted to bring into the world.

This is an exercise Jon uses to help him make decisions – in 20 years, what is the story I’ll tell people? For instance, he and Jenny decided to move into a small house so their kids could walk to school. They thought it would be a good story for their girls instead of, “We lived in a house with huge closets.”

Decisions can be tough. We shouldn’t let that get us down! Cloudless skies make for boring sunsets. The story of David and Goliath loses a lot of its magic if David is a 9-foot tall giant with a bazooka. Feeling like there’s a big thing in front of us is where the greatness comes from when we push through it.


  • If you spent 80 hours a week doing work and were to ENJOY it, what would the characteristics be of that work?
  • He had us spend 60 seconds thinking of an audacious goal. His is to buy property on an island in Maine and run a family camp there.
  • Has anyone told us our audacious goal is crazy lately? If not, we either need to get one, share it, or change it to be bigger.
  • The voices in our head are so negative so often. If someone talked to you the way YOU talk to you, you’d never hang out with yourself. We need to clean up our self-talk and make it positive.
  • We have no definition of “rest.” We thought cell phones would give us freedom. Nothing says “freedom” like answering email on the toilet.

It was a great morning! 4am wake-up time comes super early. But the VALUE I gain from these 90 minutes vs. 3 hour of lost sleep isn’t even comparable. I’m really grateful to Jon for putting these on! If you live in Nashville or the surrounding area, make it out to the 5Club next month. It’s worth your time! And not just because it’s free!

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Aug 22 2013

How to Grow as a Person

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There are two ways to grow grass. Both involve planting seed in the soil but that’s where the similarities end.

A good grass grower creates the right conditions for grass to grow so when the sun comes out, the grass grows up thick and green.

A bad grass grower throws the seed down and leaves the rest to chance. The grass usually looks sickly. If a big event comes around, he might paint the brown grass a green color to make it appear healthy. But the inside and foundation are rotted out rubbish.

The spiritual disciplines can feel like a real drag sometimes – prayer, bible reading, fasting, worship, and the others. It’s difficult to see fruit from day to day.

But one look around nature will assist us. When does grass grow? Who actually watches it move up through the ground?

Grass grows all the time in ways that are imperceptible from minute-to-minute and even hour-to-hour. But when it’s in the right environment, that growth is virtually automatic.

Human hearts are no different.

Blessed is the one… whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither—whatever they do prospers.
_Psalm 1:1-3

When we become self-aware and try to ACT like we’re healthy, it’s like painting brown grass green. It’s exhausting and feels bad. So how do we grow well? Spiritual disciplines.

Spiritual disciplines aren’t sexy. Neither is soil or water or fertilizer or sun. They’re common things. But when we put ourselves in the right environment – in God’s presence – these common activities – bible reading, prayer, fasting, worship – grow us. It’s imperceptible from moment to moment. But our growth is clearly seen from year to year. If you setup a time lapse camera on grass, you WOULD see it grow big and green if the conditions were right. And the same is true for us.

God, in his wisdom, made the spiritual life simple so simple people like you and me could get it. It has common components. Stay motivated in keeping your conditions good for growth. Read the bible, pray, fast, worship. So many good things happen when we put in the work to grow!

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Aug 21 2013

The Shaky Ground of Doubt

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Imagine you’re a baseball pitcher and you’ve been pitching very successfully in college. You have a ton of confidence. You graduate and get drafted by a major league team and go to play on one of their minor league teams in order to get better.

Your first minor league game, you give up a bunch of runs. And also in your second game and third game and fourth game and fifth game. All of a sudden your confidence is gone. You start to doubt whether you’re actually any good or not. Should you give up? No! You press in harder! You go to the pitching coach and say, “Yo! Coach! What’s going on here? Why am I giving up so many runs?” And the coach would give you a bunch of tips.

One day when Jesus was walking along, he came upon a dad and his boy. The bible says the boy had been tormented by evil spirits all his life. The boy’s dad said to Jesus…

If you can do anything, take pity on us and help us.

“‘If you can’?” said Jesus. “Everything is possible for one who believes.”

Immediately the boy’s father exclaimed, “I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!”
_Mark 9:22-24

Some of the doubts we experience can make our heart feel like it’s in exile – cut off from firm ground. At this point, people usually walk away from God or toward him.

What if, like the college baseball player, God advances us to new levels in our lives without us knowing it? What if certain times require us to say, “I don’t know what’s happening here! My confidence is gone! God, help me!”

It’s easy and ok to be disillusioned on the shaky ground of doubt. May we use what strength we have to run TO God and shout out, “Help me overcome my unbelief!”

A baseball coach helps his players along – especially in times of trouble. And God does the same for us. Get to him! And get to trusted people in your life who can guide you through. You’re on your way to being a pro! Press on!

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Aug 20 2013

When Your Sin Is So Big It Crushes You

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The awful heaviness of guilt after major sin is like a train wreck where all the cars crumple off the track. The disillusionment and fog of life makes living days difficult.

Some sat in darkness, in utter darkness,
prisoners suffering in iron chains,
because they rebelled against God’s commands
and despised the plans of the Most High…
they stumbled, and there was no one to help.
_Psalm 107:10-11

You think you’re alone. You’re not.

If you, Lord, kept a record of sins,
Lord, who could stand?
_Psalm 130:3

And, of course, the answer is none of us. Not a single one.

When Jesus gave an example of someone who understood their position before God, he chose the tax collector who, when talking to God…

stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’
_Luke 18:13

It’s a sad but beautiful scene. It’s complete brokenness. Understanding the depth of our sin doesn’t feel good. And it shouldn’t. No sickness is pleasant. But to see a matter clearly sets the stage for great things.

Then they cried to the Lord in their trouble,
and he saved them from their distress.
He brought them out of darkness, the utter darkness,
and broke away their chains.
Let them give thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love
and his wonderful deeds for mankind,
for he breaks down gates of bronze
and cuts through bars of iron.
_Psalm 107:13-16

Jesus Christ sets things right. Don’t perpetually worry your heart over your sin. You may wonder if anyone will accept you if they find out what you’ve done. They will. Not all, but many. Why? Because God does. And enough of us have truly experienced Jesus’ forgiveness to know everyone needs forgiveness! No one can stand before him!

So the prayer is this…

I wait for the Lord, my whole being waits,
and in his word I put my hope.
I wait for the Lord…
put your hope in the Lord,
for with the Lord is unfailing love
and with him is full redemption.
_Psalm 130:5-7

Jesus makes full redemption sure! Seek his face. Know his forgiveness. And peace to your soul, friend.

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