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Oct 11 2010

The Honest Mistake

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I heard a story about a guy this weekend.

The story is about a dude who shows up to work on time every day. He works really hard at what he does. He’s constantly trying to improve himself. He’s the kind of guy you want to be on your team.

On this particular day, the guy was working on a project and made a mistake. And it was a costly mistake, potentially costing his company tens of thousands of dollars.

Word got around the office fast. People were calling each other, emailing, talking in the halls. Some people actually left notes for him. “YOU’RE AN F’ING IDIOT!” one said. “You should get a new job, you piece of crap,” another read. Heaps and heaps of abuse came in. People started saying things to his face of this nature. He felt terrible. Truth be told, he felt terrible from the very beginning when his honest mistake was first made. He wanted to hide somewhere. But he couldn’t. He just kept hearing how much people hated him.

This story is about a man named Brooks Conrad. Brooks Conrad is an infielder with the Atlanta Braves who, arguably, cost his team game 3 of the NLDS against the Giants on Sunday night. Brooks Conrad was made in God’s image years before he ever threw a baseball, fielded a ground ball, or dropped a pop fly.

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Aug 20 2010

My Heart Is All I Have

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Gardeners hate weeds. Criminals hate police. Simply, the universe hates order. So the 2nd Law of Thermodynamics says. It’s true in nature and it’s true in human beings.

This past weekend, I had a friend from LA send me an email. He said this:

Dude, this is going to sound totally out of the blue – it seems like everyone I know (believers) are either getting cheated on by their spouse, getting divorced or having sex while unmarried…Are you experiencing this in your friends in Nashville? Is it just L.A.? Is it just being 27-35? I feel like I’m taking crazy pills.

Listen to me when I say this post IS NOT about condemning people. Tell me: who LOVES what it feels like when sin has run its course? Nobody. Because it most often leads to heartache. I’m not here to pile on.

I HAVE seen these things – pre-marital sex, adultery, and divorce in Nashville. I see too many people I know – Jesus-followers – getting drunk on a regular basis – and, as drunk people do, making bad decisions after getting drunk.

It’s happening because people like you and I INTENTIONALLY avoid God. Imagine a gardener who looks out on his garden. “Hmm…looks like some weeds are coming in over there. Ah, it’ll be fine. The vegetables can grow around it.” Imagine a cop who sees a criminal rob a store. “Wow! That guy is getting away with theft. Well, I’m hungry. I need to get a pizza.”

We are a generation of Jesus followers who have slowly slipped into negligence. And it’s crept up on us in the guise of sophistication. Honestly, many days, I feel the same way. I think in the vein of the negligent gardener or cop – “I know I have these rules I’m supposed to follow, but they seem awfully restrictive and Jesus has given me freedom from rules. I seem to be somewhat irrelevant in this culture if I don’t drink. I want to enjoy life and these things over here seem enjoyable. Much more fun than rule following.” So we loosen the belt. But the pants have fallen down.

If there aren’t rules, sin IS the rule. If you don’t weed, you get weeds. If you don’t patrol, you get crime. Everything tends toward disorder. Most especially, the human heart. If you don’t talk to God about your heart, you will sin.

Do you know one of the greatest faults Jesus found with people He came across? Calling the Pharisees hypocrites, He said, “These people honor me with their lips, but their HEARTS are far from me…You have a fine way of setting aside the commands of God in order to observe your own traditions” (Mark 7:6,9).

Your heart is THE MOST important thing you have. The gardener stands guard over weeds. The cop stands guard over criminals. My dear friend. Listen. GUARD. YOUR. HEART. Jesus continues, “For from within, out of men’s hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly” (Mark 7:21).

Ask your heart a question. Seriously. Ask it this…heart, where are you sinning? Heart, what rules do you love to break and ignore? Look at your actions and behavior. Where do you feel out of control? What wrong thing(s) do you do without even thinking about it?

Vegetables get damaged and neighborhoods become run down. Our lives may suffer greatly for sinful choices we make. All of this can be reversed with care and attention. Pull out the little secrets in your heart. Patrol for lies that try to seduce you into compromise. God’s traditions may seem old-fashioned. Perhaps they are. But the human heart hasn’t changed for a long time. His ways still apply.

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